Wouldn't it be great?

There are two kinds of schools we should all be required to attend.

One is a style school: A school where we will all learn what clothes/hair/make up looks good on us for our body type/skin tone/hair color. Wouldn't it be nice to remove all the eyesores?


The other is sex school: There are so many out there that don't have a clue what they are doing. I know I've been bored almost to tears before. And I'm not the only one. So many people believe that if the right area gets touched, it's good enough. Geez, People! It's not where, it's HOW. If it seems like you aren't putting any effort into it, or just doing the same thing over and over and over... Then, unless you are with an extremely sensitive partner, it won't have the effect you are hoping for. Besides, does anyone really want to be known as a lousy lay? No one does, yet very few work on improving their technique. It doesn't happen automatically. You don't just keep cycling through partners until you find one that likes what you do-- you should be able to please just about everybody (but not do everybody). Unfortunately, this takes effort. And paying attention. And you have to be willing to listen. And not get offended when someone describes what they like. All in all, you have to be comfortable with yourself. If you aren't, do everybody a favor, and keep your clothes on.